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Submitted by freefortermpapers on 06/24/2008 03:00 PM
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Adfadgfas
not see the signs, this is mainly in part of denial of breaking my trust or possibly a defense mechanism.
Unfortunately, I have had to learn the hard way, over and over again. Each time, a little different situation, but something had been learned. With each time I get hurt, I become more callused to new situations and unwilling of the same thing to happen again. A large part of my character has been built on my culture and family life. Growing up in a traditional Italian family, I was taught to be giving and forgiving no matter what the circumstance. I know my parents and family meant well in their up bringing however, this does not work in the corporate world. I have been vulnerable with by feelings with others and in turn have learned some hard lessons. I try to combat this by thinking before I speak and act. I have found taking a step back
stress, denial, projection, rationalization, anger, self-serving bias, passion, enculturation, and depression. These barriers often times inhibit us from seeing the true reality and instead we see a twisted or altered perception.
For me personally, my perception of relationships has not been my reality.
Both plutonic and intimately, my thinking, logic and critical thinking have been blurred by the common barriers mentioned earlier. One other barrier I would like to add is trust. Trusting in others has been a barrier of perceptual reality for me.
Right from the start of meeting someone new, that person already has earned my trust. This in itself is blurring my perception of their character. This very barrier has caused me friendships, and relationships. If I could allow for the trust to be earned, the relations would be built slowly and would minimize the oversight of the other common barriers other character issues. When my expectations of my initial perceptions were proven to be false, only caused the other barriers to amplify and thinking became unclear. The stress and emotional...
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